What's Mostly Missed

Everyone has the potential to look within to discover their own inner magnificence, but what’s needed to have this magnificence revealed is to learn to live with what’s occurring right now.

What’s mostly missed about the Conditioned Mind is the understanding how all reaching is the same regardless of what is being reached for. It’s all bondage and make no mistake your bondage is your prison. There are so many things reached for from ayahuasca, Heroin, sugar, love, God, programs and many others things, and it’s this reaching that needs to be understood if one is to break free from its enticing grip. Nobody just randomly reaches for something, it arises from within because there’s a lack that needs to be fulfilled. This is where the misunderstanding occurs and it’s because one thinks reaching for ayahuasca is different than reaching for Heroin. Granted the results may seem different, but since the true nature of the reaching isn’t identified you remain the same even though a story is created you are different. It easier to justify when you are reaching to help others than reaching for Heroin, but it’s still reaching to fulfill an inner lack.

I know this is difficult to grasp and many will say this guys crazy, how can reaching for God be the same as reaching for drugs or alcohol. Or how can reaching for ayahuasca be the same as reaching for Heroin, but it is as it all arises from the inability to truly be present for what’s happening right now. If there’s lack, this will be reinforced by one’s reaching and if this isn’t seen, you’ll remain in your bondage. Understanding this is difficult, but it’s why I don’t push to develop a program, or why I won’t become a life coach or anything else because it’s all reinforces reaching. I will help anyone look within to find their own inner magnificence; the only thing needed to do this is to learn to live with what’s occurring right now. To me right now is all anything should point to, but because why there’s reaching isn’t understood, one remains a prisoner to it and keeps reaching for the next whatever they think is needed to be fulfilled.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/31/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am the good I treat myself and others! I am the good I share with myself and with others! I am the good I speak of, behave like, act out, and feel wherever I am and what I am doing! I am supporting and embracing the good within me…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Escaping From Yourself

To accept yourself as you are is such a relief because the only real misery is wanting you to be in some other way. When it’s realized one has only been trying to escape from themselves, there is peace.

When one awakens the secrets of the Universe aren’t revealed, although in a way they are, what really happens is you stop needing to escape from yourself. To me the main attribute of waking up from the sleep of unconsciousness isn’t figuring out what life is all about, it’s not being concerned with what life is all about. The escaping, searching, reaching, and need to do ceases as it’s realized what you have been escaping from is yourself. It’s a great relief to accept yourself exactly as you are because the only real misery is wanting you to be in some other way. When this is seen the need to escape subsides as does the need to be right, and the need for things to be different, especially yourself. This doesn’t mean you don’t move forward to change, but it’s done so in a way that it doesn’t cause the very suffering that one is trying to avoid. When you stop escaping from yourself, you stop reaching, this occurs naturally. I had to escape from myself for forty nine years and it nearly killed me.

This was my awakening; to see that I was always escaping from myself. It was revealed that I could stop this and I was going to be okay. This is a beautiful space to be in, it’s the space where the peace that passes all understanding arises. It’s not a magical place for a select few, it’s a place where everyone’s heart dwells, one just has to stop trying to escape to experience it. The possibilities when one stops escaping are endless, there are no blocks here so creativity arises. No one knows what exactly may arise, but I can tell you this, when you stop escaping, reaching for things stops and life is lived in the peaceful state of accepting yourself as you are and nothing more is needed.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/30/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am continuing with a positive attitude with the belief that it will all work out in my favor to benefit my future! I am continuing with positive thinking toward beneficial outcomes and optimal results in my favor! I am continuing with positive effective behavior and positive self-talk that benefits me…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Beneficial Guidance

Our answers are always within, one just need to make sure the tools being used to provide them are guiding you in a direction that is the most beneficial to your life.

Ten years ago there was definite guidance in the direction my life was going when I begin the study of my own mind. There weren’t any goals to make my life about something in particular, all I was looking for is the peace that eluded me for most of my life. This is still the direction of my guidance today, but understand just because one is on a so called spiritual path, it doesn’t mean what you’re doing is truly beneficial to you. I did things for years I thought was right and it turned out to be not so beneficial; these things actually keep me in bondage. I won’t go into details, but what I do today is beneficial and how I know this is because I’m at peace and don’t have a desire for anything else. I have passion in my heart for things, but not an aching because I need this moment to be different. Not looking for anything is how you will know if what you’re doing is truly a benefit to you.

You may want to be the most spiritual person in your circle, you may be reading all the so called right books, quoting all the right people, and putting all your energy into your practice, but the question is can you stop it all and still be at peace? If not what you’re doing is being used as a distraction. I was distracted for forty nine years, try another book, a program, therapy, another pill, working out, meditation, or whatever, but when the tasks is complete and you’re living your daily life, if you’re not at peace, what you’re doing isn’t beneficial. All things are pointers, but where there is misdirection in guidance is in thinking the pointers are the answers. The answers are within, one just needs to make sure the tools being used to provide them are guiding you in a direction that is the most beneficial to your life.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/29/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am motivating myself for the good, great, and better I deserve! I am motivating myself to act on my good thoughts, creative imagination, and beneficial ideas for those outcomes I want to experience! I am motivating myself to keep going one step at a time…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Defining Moments

There are defining moments in life that expose the lies that lead to truth, but this truth doesn’t define who one is, it defines who one isn’t, and once who one isn’t is revealed, what’s left is who one is.

When one comes upon a defining moment in their life, depending on where they’re at in their state of consciousness, it will either be used as a defining moment to awaken or it will be missed and the moment will delve one deeper into their unconsciousness. When there is awareness of this defining moment, it puts one in alignment with their true essence of love. This is a moment that can change the direction of one’s entire existence. One can have many defining moments, a few of them, or just one. I had one in 2007 that altered the way I viewed existence.

I now have this moment to use as a reference point to describe the defining moment that transformed my life. It’s not like I don’t habitually return to some of my old conditioned behaviors, but no longer do they define me because I see the behavior was only done because it’s what I was conditioned to do; it no longer defines who I am. One can make up many stories as to who they are, by only when a defining moment exposes the lies can truth be known. What this truth has defined for me is not so much who I am, but more so who I am not, and because the truth of who I am not is known I now know who I am, and it really doesn’t need to be defined.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/28/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
"I am allowing myself to accept my past to move forward from and enjoy my future one gifted present moment at a time! I am dwelling on the here and now with gratitude for the things I have and people in my life! I am allowing myself to enjoy new things, new people, and new events..."
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Thoughts Don't Liberate

When one is always concerned about getting to a place of peace, life just passes you by. A thought isn’t needed to see this, but it will take a mind that’s settled not to attach to your thoughts.

At the core of every belief is the thought of self that’s appoints authority to “I”. This self appointed authority manifest from an inner structure that is created so one can live in the most pleasurable of ways. We believe in everything we have in place because we ourselves have unconsciously chose that our thoughts make life better. There’s no other reason to attach to a thought except for the sole purpose it will provide pleasure in some way. Look into this very carefully to see how thoughts manifest in your life. God, money, material possessions, love, programs, spirituality, social status, enlightenment, and so on, are all formed to provide pleasure based on a thought. If this isn’t questioned your thoughts will continue their control even though it will not truly provide the results that it’s being attached to for; it can’t because an attached thought is bondage and bondage is suffering even if it isn’t seen.

Thoughts are basically used to create stories of beliefs, but I haven’t found one iota of usefulness making up a story of believing in something. I live in the space of what is and since there isn’t a story needed in this space, the thought of a belief isn’t necessary. This is true liberation; the thoughtless space of existence. It doesn’t take any thought, effort, or story to be liberated. The reason why so many don’t become liberated is a thought of the belief of liberation is attached to. The thought about liberation doesn’t provide liberation. It doesn’t take a thought formed belief to see this, but it does take a mind that’s settled not to attach to your thoughts about the belief of liberation.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/27/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am alive blessed to enjoy myself! I am strong enough to continue for greater moments for greater days for greater memories from greater adventures and experiences! I am alive blessed with strength, willpower, time, and love…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

No "I" Know Peace

Emotions arising when something happens to a loved one is natural. If one could just be with the arisen emotion without attaching to “I “ you would remain open and an emotional story wouldn’t come into play.

One of the main problems as to why so many people are seekers of peace and why it remains elusive is because peace is mostly sought as the conceptual thought of “I” and the thought of peace will never bring about that which “I” desires. Only the thought that “I” isn’t at peace makes one not at peace. You can ask, well if I think I’m at peace then will I be? I say no because it’s as if you are trying to talk yourself into it. It’s like whistling in the dark to keep away the boogeyman; it becomes more of a distraction than a real tool of peace. To go deeper, notice the thought “I” at the center of who desires peace. Creating problems is the nature of “I”. This is because “I” pushes away the truth of what is and looks for what isn’t. “I” is constantly looking for what isn’t in the form of wanting the present moment different. It uses all kinds of “I” concepts that one blindly adheres to.

Here’s an example of “I” attaching to a loved one dying. The emotions that arise are real, but now take grief and watch how it arises strictly from “I” not wanting the person who died to be dead. I will miss them is an “I” story, this creates tightness. Emotions arising because a loved one dies is natural, but if one could just be with the arisen emotions instead of attaching to them, you would remain open and an “I” story wouldn’t come into play; without an “I” story is to be without suffering or grief. Anyone who says grief is a natural process has never truly investigated “I” at a deeper level, they’re probably only repeating what someone else said. Don’t take my word for this, investigate “I” for yourself and stop being a prisoner to the emotions that “I” makes up which only keeps you from truly being at peace as peace remains only as a conceptual thought.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/26/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am thankful for all the good I have gained in my life, the great relationships and interactions benefiting me, and the awesome memories! I am grateful for all the great influences encouraging me, good benefits assisting me, and awesome experiences worth reflecting upon! I am thankful and grateful to be here…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

In the Grip

Make no mistake just because what has a hold of you isn’t seen, it doesn’t mean you aren’t in the grip. What it does mean is the grip has total control and you probably don’t even notice it…

Everyone is in the grip of something, it’s how tight the grips hold is that determines the degree of bondage and hence suffering. Many different consequences are a result of the grips hold, but make no mistake any grip results in being in prison to it. It can be a grip as subtle as must having your morning cup of coffee or a more damaging grip to drugs, alcohol, gambling, tobacco products, and anger, to name a few. The things used as the grip varies for everyone; as it is seen so it shall be. There are those grips that are common for everyone such as food, shelter, companionship, basic survival and whatnot. There’s the grip which is wide spread, but not attached to by everyone, this grip manifest as politics, porn, substance abuse, alcohol, sports, pleasure seeking, wealth, and many others. Then there’s the grip at the individual level, our pet peeves. The squeak in the car, annoyances of a person acting a certain way, traffic, and a number of other things.

What the grip makes a person reach for is generated by different energy, although wanting things different is the common link. Some grips seek sense pleasure, others simply want what’s happening right now to stop. Some grips have pushing energy like if you go to the doctor and get a diagnosis you don’t like. Others have pulling energy like seeing something attractive that you want, whether right now or making plans to attain it at a later date. The grip uses many disguises so if one doesn’t investigate this for themselves what is gripping you will go unnoticed. But make no mistake just because what has a hold of you isn’t seen, it doesn’t mean you aren’t in the grip. What it does mean is the grip has total control and you probably don’t even notice it…

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/25/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am on a path to enjoy myself as much as I can just as I deserve! I am on a journey to enjoy my life filled with adventure, grander, and amusement! I continue looking forward to conceiving more of the good situations, great events, and ideal circumstances…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

The Awe and Mystery of the Crucifixion and Resurrection


As Christians, we have heard time and time and time again, the story of the Crucifixion and the Resurrection, perhaps so many times that Holy Week and Easter have become times of fasting and feasting without the awe and mystery of the events, which occurred two thousand years ago. To truly appreciate the magnitude of these events, we must contemplate the person of Jesus Christ. We must comprehend who He is? Jesus is called the Word by John: In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was GodAll things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made…He was in the world, and the world was made by him, and the world knew him not…And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth…No man hath seen God at any time, the only begotten Son, which is in the bosom of the Father, he hath declared him (made him known) (John 1:1-18 KLV). Jesus of Nazareth is a mystery to us because we cannot fully comprehend God, yet, as Christians, we know Jesus is God. We cannot fully know God, but we can know God through Christ.
As best as you can, take a moment and envision God in three persons, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, together as one in eternity. Paint a picture for yourself of the three as one, planning to create our universe, knowing that the pinnacle of their creation would be man who would reject God’s love and choose evil. It was at a time when there was no time that God chose to sacrifice Himself to save us, long before we even existed. Christ, the Son of God, seated on His throne of glory, immeasurably loved by His Father and worshipped by angels, would choose to take on flesh and become a human being, knowing that He would suffer betrayal, rejection, and crucifixion. Have you ever been betrayed or rejected by someone you loved deeply? Knowing this, would you choose the horrifically painful death on the cross for that person? 
When we stop and contemplate our all-powerful God, who willingly took on flesh for us, so He could die on the cross and save us, we are in awe! Reverence and wonder fill our spirits! We drop down to our knees in humility and gratitude and fear! “For God so loved the world (each and every one us) that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life” (John 3:16). Amazingly, God offers us an invitation to live eternally in His love. “But God proves his love for us in that while we still were sinners Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8). Incredibly, He chose to die for us, even though we are not worthy of His love. We are not able to love Him perfectly as He loves us, for each time we sin, we reject His divine love and choose evil. When we come to realize this, we are stirred by a profound repentance for our sins. Our flesh may be weak, but our spirit loves our Lord. “See what love the Father has given us, that we should be called children of God” (1 John 3:1). Even as sinners, God desires a relationship with us, not just a friendship, but rather, He wishes to call us His sons and daughters! He destined us for adoption as his children through Jesus Christ, according to the good pleasure of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace that he freely bestowed on us in the Beloved” (Ephesians 1:5-6). What a good and loving God He is!
The cross, an inhumane means of suffering a painful, shameful, public death, was meant to produce fear. God transformed this instrument of execution into a symbol of hope, life and salvation. Through the Resurrection, God confounds evil by recreating the cross into a glorious banner of our faith. Thus, Isaiah’s prophecy is fulfilled, “he will swallow up death forever” (Isaiah 25:8). Consequently in 1 Corinthians 15:54-55, Paul triumphantly declares:
“Death has been swallowed up in victory.”
“Where, O death, is your victory?
    Where, O death, is your sting?”

We are astonished and in awe that Christ rose from the dead to reveal Himself as God, to free us from sin, and to offer us eternal life through salvation! Through the resurrection, we possess the hope of eternal rewards in the presence of God, cleansed from all evil, in communion with His infinite love, destined to live in unimaginable joy and peace. Paul refers to the prophecy in Isaiah 64:4 when he asserts the mysteries of our heavenly blessings (1 Corinthians 2:9):

But, as it is written,
“What no eye has seen, nor ear heard,
    nor the human heart conceived,
what God has prepared for those who love him.”

As Easter approaches, ask the Holy Spirit to reintroduce you to those feelings of childlike wonder in the awesome mysteries of the crucifixion and resurrection. Allow yourself to experience God’s infinite love revealed to us through the cross of Christ. Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal Christ to you in all His humility, meekness, and mercy, for this is the kind of love He offers us. God humbled Himself and offered to wash our feet as He washed the feet of the disciples. He offers Himself to us each time we participate in Holy Communion. We receive the blood and body of Christ to spark that mystical union we have through the Holy Spirit who lives within us as Christians. When you go forward to receive the Eucharist, know with all your being that Christ lives in you!
If you have not known Christ, ask God to reveal Him to you! God knows what it takes to make Himself real to you. Open your heart! He will create a miracle within you, and you will rejoice in experiencing His overwhelmingly, infinite, divine love firsthand. There is nothing else like it!         

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Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/24/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am choosing to move forward with better feelings and emotions! I am deciding on better ideas and solutions to help me! I am choosing to be positive, think positive, talk positive, and feel positive to benefit me! I choose to be better going forward…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

A Biased View

There’s not much life in something that has no flow, and this is exactly what happens when one has a biased view, the free flowing energy is cut off and unfortunately causes suffering.

A biased view is what causes a person to get locked into only seeing things from that one side. It matters little what the bias is, as it’s the rigidness of being biased that doesn’t allow one’s energy to be free flowing. This is what happens when a story is created and it becomes the biased view of what life is about in any particular moment. The bias becomes very deeply engrained as one becomes more and more emotionally tied into whatever it is that’s being focused on. It’s very difficult to not attach to something that’s made up by the mind, but has a story of it being dear to our hearts, such as our children, spouse, parents, relatives, friends and so on. You can have compassion, passion, and genuine love for something without attaching to it and being biased.

To me this biased view is the normal view of most people and it’s why many suffer unnecessarily. I’ve noticed this occurring in so many lives and I can see the suffering it causes. Unfortunately those in the midst of this biased view can’t see it, nor can they pull themselves out of it until the bias is seen as the cause of their suffering. The biased view doesn’t allow the openness needed to be free from attachment and since attachment is the root of suffering, suffering is inevitable. The tighter the grip of something, the more one becomes biased and the less free flowing energy there is in one’s life. There’s not much life in something that has no flow and this is exactly what happens when one’s free flowing energy is cut off as the biased view controls life and inevitably causes suffering.


Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/23/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:

Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!

“I am empowering myself for better moments! I am empowering myself for better days! I am empowering myself for my happiness, for my joy, and for my success! I am choosing what is good for my mind, what is good for my body, and what is good for my soul…”

to continue a greater life!

Great day to you, as a great day continues~

Edward F. T. Charfauros

Life Guide and Author

Original: https://edwardftcharfauros.com/2018/03/22/23-10/

Hear What Life is Saying

There’s no way one will ever fully understand life intellectually so to fill in the gaps answers are made up, but it’s in the space of what arises that one hears what life is saying so answers aren’t needed.

Listening to what arises allows for harmony with life so what’s not of the mind can be heard; thoughts block this from occurring. What arises is always there, but it’s not always heard because of the noise between one’s ears. We are mostly programmed to live visually without taking much time to truly listen to what life is saying and thus we don’t truly hear. Living visually becomes the default view of many. Visual living is why one gets pulled around by outer circumstances and it’s because hearing what arises underneath the visual hasn’t been developed. There’s no way one can fully understand life intellectually so answers are made up, but in the space of what arises one hears what life is saying so answers aren’t needed. Listen to what arises and hear what life is saying. Develop your listening skills through sitting; just being with the sounds of what arises. Add nothing, take nothing away, just sit, listen, be with what arises.

Listening to what arises is so different than being drawn in by the visual view. This is because through the visual view a label of like or dislike is instantly applied and attachment follows to the point where it gains control. As this occurs the silence of what is actually occurring is missed. This is the beginning of how our stories are created and it’s because the space of what arises will be filled with something; it will either be a story or silence. Learning to hear what occurs as it arises is a skill few develop. Until it becomes the primary way life is viewed, the visual will continue to keep one in bondage to the senses as the outer circumstances remain in control and don’t allow for what life is saying to be heard.

Liberation Through Love

In the space between our thoughts our innate love hovers, waiting. When one awakens from being stuck in the thought realm to see this, the door to liberation opens.

You will never be free if you do not love. Love is the doorway to liberation. To see this a shift has to occur which allows you to get out of the way of all the preoccupied distractions that goes on between your ears. These distraction are what blocks out love from manifesting in one’s life. There are many doors to love, but there is only one that leads to liberation. If you don’t love, liberation will not be experienced and this is because the doorway most step through is based in selfishness. You may tell yourself you are free, but If you’re all caught up in your own thoughts, what’s truly going on will be missed; what’s missed is the true essence of your own innate love within.

To use love as a doorway to liberation the preoccupations with our thoughts will have to settle enough to allow this to be seen. Thinking, thinking, thinking, is just the way our conditioning holds us in captivity and keeps us preoccupied with ourselves. Basically we have to lose interest in ourselves and focus on the deeper process of love being a doorway to liberation. I’m not into positive thinking or affirmations, to me they’re just distraction; one cannot see what’s truly going on if you’re always trying to be the little engine who could. In the space between our thoughts is where our innate love is, waiting. When one awakens from being stuck in the thought realm to see this, the door to liberation opens.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/22/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am determined to make this year count by making my days count! I am determined to make my days count by making my moments count! I am loving this life and I am enjoying this life as much as I can! I am not resisting the flow of good coming and going within my life! I am determined to smile, giggle, and laugh as much as I can…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
 
Life Guide and Author

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/21/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am taking on my challenges regardless of how rocky and bumpy my path may be! I am succeeding regardless of how my path appears to me! I must be optimistic thinking forward, I must be appreciative moving on, and I need to be feeling good into my future…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
 
Life Guide and Author

Arising Creativity

Creative energy comes from the stillness within yourself. When there’s stillness you can truly get in touch with your own creativity and not need the worlds approval for what arises.

Whenever a person touches on their creative energy an exuberance occurs that can only come from this creative touch. When the creativity arises from this space it doesn’t matter whether you get paid for it or not. A songwriter enjoys writing whether the song is a number one hit on the charts or if it just remains in their personal collection. I don’t write to get money or anything else, I just enjoy writing, I create with words. The most important thing about creativity is to allow it to arise from the stillness of the heart. I don’t try to be anything that I’m not. It’s important for me to stay within the boundaries of what I know and write from there.

Regardless of your talent, whether you’re a musician, writer, artist, singer, actor, good at your day to day job, a parent, or whatever, let your creative energy engulf you. It’s what I do, it’s how I see what I see. Don’t fall prey to what the world offers, find what your own heart offers. Become the instrument the Universe plays its beautiful music through, whatever that music manifest as; mine manifest as writings. Understand though this doesn’t complete you, you are complete as you are. Realizing this will help you to just watch your inner creativity arise without attaching to it. I know this from experience and only the creative tip of the iceberg has been exposed to me. When my mind settled writing arose, all I did was look inward. It amazes me to this day that not only was I used to write a book, but I’m also used to write a daily article that touched lives and to me this is creativity at its finest.

Treadmill Path

As long as there is seeking there will always be seeking and one will remain on the treadmill path exerting all kinds of energy, but not really getting anywhere.

What keeps a person stuck on the treadmill path of seeking is trying to manufacture peace, love, kindness, mindfulness, spirituality, and so on, instead of aligning oneself through discipline with the present moment which allows these attributes to arise naturally. This is what keeps the treadmill energy in place. The energy of this seeking is circular (like a dog chasing its tail) so it’s never going to produce anything that’s going to get you off the treadmill. You may bounce to a seemingly different path because it’s given a different label, but as long as one thinks they have to do something to manufacture a certain desired result, running in place will continue regardless of what it’s called and so you will remain on the treadmill path.

This seeking of desired results makes a person use an an array of things, from sweets, drugs, alcohol, gambling, tv, success, sex, programs, another book, retreat, a path, meditation, and many other things. What these all have in common is they keep you engrained to the treadmill path of seeking which is attached to by the Conditioned Mind. A true transformation of the spirit cannot be manufactured. Repeat: A true transformation of the spirit cannot be manufactured. This is because seeking energy is the exact energy that blocks the alignment which allows energy to transform. Only when you get off the treadmill path can a transformation or shift occur. As long as there is seeking there will always be seeking and you will remain on the treadmill path exerting all kinds of energy, but not really getting anywhere.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/20/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am confident in my success! I am a believer in my ideas, my purpose, and my mission! I am confident in my journey to accomplish my goals, achieve satisfactory results, and attain the kind of outcomes I imagine for myself! I am motivated to continue with confidence and faith…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
 
Life Guide and Author

Turmoil in Place

Although it seems what occurs in life is the cause of one’s arising turmoil, but this is not the case. The turmoil that arises is already in place, if it wasn’t there’s no way it would arise.

You can only react to life with what you have in place. Something like anger arises because it has been learned, this also goes for fear, greed, hate, and so on. I constantly reacted unconsciously for many years without any understanding whatsoever and it kept me locked into my inner turmoil, clueless that the only reason it was occurring was because it was in place. Simply put, when something occurred that I didn’t like, my inner turmoil arose without my permission or knowledge and I reacted in the way that I did. What arose was whatever my conditioning deemed appropriate. The only reason this happened is because it was already there laying in wait: like a lion waiting to pounce on its unsuspecting prey.

Understanding this is where there is power in knowledge. If why one’s inner turmoil arises isn’t understood, there will be very little true periods where this turmoil reactions are not in control. Through awareness of what’s arising, one has something tangible to use to get beyond it. Why most people remain as they are and repeat the same reactions over and over is because of the total unawareness of why it happens. To me this knowledge has immense value because when it’s seen one can truly decipher whether what’s in place is beneficial or not. It’s then that a course of action can be developed to change whatever’s in place that’s causing the non beneficial turmoil to arise.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/19/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am thriving on the positive while striving for more of the good stuff, great memories, and awesome moments to keep myself moving forward positively! I am looking forward to sharing, receiving, and celebrating more of the good adventures, great events, and awesome people in my life! I am positively thriving on the good over the bad…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
 
Life Guide and Author

Illusion of Self

Our beliefs manifest in many different ways, mostly as thought formed ideas, and concepts, but at the core of any of them is an attachment to the form of self that doesn’t truly exist.

The origination of all beliefs arise from the attachment to a self that doesn’t exist in the way the Conditioned Mind makes it appear. Without this belief and attachment to self no other belief would be given energy to arise nor would one be needed. Many times throughout the day especially when I just wake up, the self gets attached to which creates the belief this or that is needed to be in some other way, this stems strictly from the belief there is a self. What I have learned to do which immediately drops the attachment is to say “form is emptiness, emptiness is form”this provides a release point which instantly transforms the attaching energy to non attaching energy. Attaching energy will run its course unless something is in place to stop it. This is because what’s of the mind remains of the mind, that is until it doesn’t.

For me saying “form is emptiness, emptiness is form” takes the mind based attaching energy and neutralizes it. That’s what happens when this particular saying is used, but the saying isn’t magic, it’s the truth of the statement that has transforming quality’s. It also works when the breath is used, chanting, tapping, guided meditation, or whatever else is used to put one in the present moment. The minds energy controls in a circular motion. This is why there’s the constant barrage of repetitive thoughts and why it’s so difficult to break free from the Conditioned Mind grip. Truth transforms, so when the illusion of self is truly seen, there’s a settling of the mind. This allows one to simply be in the only place where truth exist; the present moment. And although form does exist in the present moment, it’s empty because it’s doesn’t exist in the way the Conditioned Mind makes it appear.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/18/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am choosing to be thankful and grateful! I am choosing to be thankful and grateful for the obvious good things in my life and all that I look forward to receiving into my life! I am thankful and grateful for the relationships o have and people positively affecting me! I am thankful and grateful to be alive…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
 
Life Guide and Author

Storied Beliefs

Every belief that’s created is a story used to provide relief in some way, but if it was that easy one could just go around making up story after story whenever life didn’t go the way it was thought it should be.

There are very few hard facts to a belief, but this doesn’t stop a person from thinking the story of a belief is needed to provide relief. The only reason storied beliefs are made up to begin with is because of the way our minds have been conditioned. They’re used to keep the mind in a state of agitation by making one think things need to be different for there to be relief. It’s what the ego uses to keep one believing in a self that doesn’t exist. This is why most conflicts begin because of an ego that forms storied beliefs. Whatever the storied belief is in, whether it’s in a God that’s going to provide relief, a program, a different job or spouse, the next lottery win, or whatever storied belief is used that would provide relief, it all stems from one’s own conditioned thought that things need to be different in order for you to make sense of something that’s occurring.

To believe or not to believe, that is the question? It really has nothing to do with the belief, it has everything to do with creating a story and thinking if things were different there would be peace. This is what needs to be discovered if the falseness of a storied belief is to be revealed. If attaching to a storied belief is found to provide relief, by all means do it, but for me there is relief without a storied beliefs, especially because beliefs only exist in the mind. If they’re seen to be real and have some facts to back them up, believe them, attach to them, use them, but in truth don’t be surprised if when they are needed to fall back on, they don’t provide the relief that was believed they were going to provide.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/17/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am determined not to worsen my life because I want to be better! I am determined to live a blissful much more joyous livelihood because I am meant to! I am determined not to dwell on the negative point of view, ideas, and beliefs because I want better outcomes and results! I am determined to continue for greater moments for greater days…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
 
Life Guide and Author

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Observing the Observer

When there’s attachment and you become the observer, the one who just observes disappears, that is until “I” is let go of, it is then that one can simply observe without labeling the observer.

Observing what arises is basically all that one can do. There’s nothing more that can be done because any doing takes away from being able to observe. Either one will see what arises or they won’t. If it’s not seen it will become a mind agitation which will be attached to and then the reaching for something to quiet the agitation will commence. This attaching to what arises is what causes one to suffer in the form of thoughts, emotions, feelings, ideas, and so on. If there isn’t attachment to what arise, observing is what happens, but you don’t become the observer because then it becomes a doing ; observing is just something that occurs. Just see and don’t add to it. You hear a dog bark, you just hear, there doesn’t have to be attaching to hearing the dog bark. The Conditioned Mind is very subtle, it will always try to attach something. Without a settled the mind agitations will rule.

Read my article and attach to the label that the mind agitation projects. Like it or don’t like it, see some value or don’t, the thing is those labels are the result of a mind agitation that makes you have to judge whatever it is that arises in the moment. If you can’t just observe it without adding to it, it’s because you have attached to the arisen agitation. This all comes from within the one that life happens to, but nothing really happens to you, it just happens. When driving a car or whatever else it is that arises, just observe, add nothing. When one becomes the observer, there’s attachment to “I”. When there’s just observing what arises, there’s no “I” involved so there’s no attachment. When you become the observer the one who just observes disappears, that is until “I” is let go of, it is then that one can simply observe without labeling the observer.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/16/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am moving in the direction I feel supports my growth, my health, my well-being, and my livelihood! I am adjusting and adapting to changes to benefit my will, strengthen my esteem, motivate my thoughts, and educate my mind! I am proceeding with my good emotions, positive thoughts, and great ideas…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
 
Life Guide and Author

The Next Step

If one is to break free from the Conditioned Mind, the next step in the evolutionary process has to be taken. This is the letting go of all dependencies that are used for one to feel complete.

Letting go is the key in taking the next step in the evolution of yourself and humanity. Those who came before us and left directions served their purpose, but now a new millennium is here where the process has to keep expanding for humanity to keep on evolving. As I can only share my own experience with this, the reason for my suffering prior to ten years ago, even though I was shown a solid way was because I was dependent on the way and not it’s message. As long as this dependency on a way is in place, the cause of suffering will be in place and the evolutionary process will not expand.

If there’s dependency on the idea of God, Religion, any program, success, books, Guru’s, and anything else that’s being labeled and used as the way, this will not allow the expansion in the next step of the evolution process, yours and humanity’s. I’m not concerned if this is seen or agreed with, but this is a truth that is missed by 99.99999% of humanity. I take up the challenge, prove to me this isn’t true. You can argue with this from your Conditioned Mind as it will say who does this guy think he is, but I just state a fact, this will have to be investigated to see if it’s true. All dependencies are a made up story, there’s nothing factual to them, and that’s because a dependency is simply a made up belief, concept, or idea, that something from the outside is needed for completeness. What is stated here is factual and it’s only in the facts of non attachment that truth will be revealed. This is the next step in the evolutionary process, the question is are you willing to let go of your dependencies so the next step can be taken?

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/15/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
"I am choosing to live forward for every gifted present moment for a future I desire to create for myself! I am determined to journey forward focusing on my blessings while concentrating on the good, great, and better! I am choosing to continue a greater mood, a greater attitude, and a greater appreciation..."
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
 
Life Guide and Author

The Treasure is Within

People have left us maps to help find the treasure within, but if the map points to someone or something out there as the treasure, it’s probably not a true treasure map.

Throughout life one will use a variety of maps to chart a so called course to live by, and although these maps provide many different routes, they don’t lead to the treasure that is being sought. There are many maps to use and I have used a variety of them, but unbeknownst to me at the time none of them were the treasure map I thought they were. Many people left maps behind to use, but only a few are true treasure maps, and how you will know you are using a true treasure map is by it pointing you inward. No longer looking for the treasure is the treasure.

Ten years ago I stumbled upon some maps that led to this treasure within. To me Buddha’s map doesn’t point to the Buddha it points for one to look within. Same thing with Jesus, his map points us to look within to find our own love, our treasure. Jesus and the Buddha are the maps, but they’re not the treasure, the treasure is within oneself. There are many other maps that point to one’s inward treasure, this must be understood if the treasure is to be revealed.

Not many find their treasure because they think the maps are the treasure, but when it says X marks the spot, the X is not the one who left the map, it is you. Religion, 12 Step programs, retreats, seminars, and whatnot, are nothing but maps. What has evolved over time is the map has been mistaken for the treasure and because it’s not it doesn’t provide one with the wealth of looking within to discover the real treasure. This leads to people following many different maps, but very few discovering the treasure. Use whatever map you think is needed to reveal your treasure, just understand if it points to someone or something out there as the treasure, it’s probably not a true treasure map.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/14/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am doing what is necessary of me to love consistently, enjoy often, appreciate much, smile more, and think positively everywhere I am! I am doing what is necessary of me to have more fun, play often, share much, and adventure everywhere I go! I am focusing with positivity, feeling with love, and thinking forward with optimism…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
 
Life Guide and Author

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/13/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I feel better when I attain plenty of sleep for the energy I put forth in my passionate interests, worthwhile purposes, and blissful entertainment! I feel great when I put forth effort into my amusement, my gratitude, and my joy! I feel good when I share what I enjoy, with those I enjoy, where I enjoy being…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
 
Life Guide and Author

The Hole of Loneliness

When the mind settles the need to reach for something lessens. In the process the hole of loneliness disappears and it’s simply because an “I” story of a hole isn’t being created…

The hole of loneliness seems to get wider as one ages, but it doesn’t really, what happens is there are just less distractions so “I” takes more of a hold. The natural process of life seems to be to stay busy trying to figure things out and regardless of what exactly the figuring out manifest as, it certainly creates a lot of distractions. There are periods in between the busyness where a person has some idle time and probably feels the hole of loneliness, but it doesn’t usually last very long because the busyness of trying to figure out life returns. This busyness last most of one’s life, but there does come a time that the natural process of being busy lessens. At this stage many people experience a loneliness that hasn’t been noticed before so it will either be addressed by looking inward or one will get busy again trying to figure out how to fill the hole.

Eventually the busyness will end for whatever reason, but unfortunately for most people without the busyness the hole of loneliness rears its ugly head. Many elderly people struggle to fill this hole, but it’s so difficult because there just isn’t a lot going on. Kids are grown, retirement, house paid off, more time behind you than what’s left, and the list goes on. I was this way for many years, using distraction after distraction. There were very brief periods of not needing to reach, but these periods were far a few in between. That is until ten years ago when I hit an emotional bottom. I began sitting and simply looking inward which allowed me to see the distractions of my “I” needing to attach to a story. As I sat the mind settled and thus the “I” needing to reach for something lessened. In the process the hole of loneliness disappeared and it was simply because the “I” story of a hole was not being created…

Open Minded Energy

Open minded energy allows for objectivity and truth to be seen, and it can remain free flowing and beneficial as long as there isn’t attachment which closes the mind and only allows you to see things one way.

Thinking your way is the only way things should be viewed is the harmful energy of a closed mind. Why this is harmful is because it doesn’t allow for the free flowing energy of an open mind which can view things objectively instead of through the limiting factor of only one view. When the mind is closed nothing loving can come out of it because a closed mind has no flow to it. It’s as if you have already made up your mind how things are and this doesn’t allow for anything but that one very limited view. A closed mind is from the same energy as a car stuck in the mud. The tires spin, but the car remains stuck. As a matter of fact this energy actually creates a deeper rut that becomes almost impossible to break free of. As the tires spin the rut just gets deeper and deeper. There’s energy being applied here, but it’s not an energy of beneficial value.

Even if your view is of truth it matters little because the moment you think it’s the view all should have, it cuts off the free flowing energy of openness. The energy of a closed mind is judgmental so there’s no benefit to it because it doesn’t allow for love. To be open to allow everyone their space to see things as they do is the energy of freedom. To be closed limits and this causes one to be in bondage to that one limited usually a selfish based view. It’s never about being right, it’s more so learning to not allow labeling and judgements of what arises in the present moment. It’s doesn’t mean you can’t point others to the possibility of seeing things different, but it can never be at the expense of pushing anything away or pulling anything in. With open minded energy one can see truth, and it can remain free flowing and beneficial as long as there isn’t attachment which closes the mind and only allows you to see things one way.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 03/12/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am too busy loving while enjoying myself moving on! I am too busy enjoying my adventures and events while continuing forward! I am too busy adventuring with enthusiasm while attending to my interests, my purpose, and my bliss! I am releasing the negative beliefs, emotions, and thoughts ailing me…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
 
Life Guide and Author