Showing posts with label Easter. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Easter. Show all posts

The Resurrection


Xristos Anesti! Christ is Risen! This is how Greek Orthodox greet each other beginning on Easter until the day of Ascension, Thursday, June 6. All Christians believe that Christ rose from the dead on Easter Sunday, three days after he was crucified. According to Matthew 28:2, “And suddenly there was a great earthquake; for an angel of the Lord, descending from heaven, came and rolled back the stone and sat on it” and the guards shook from fear and became like dead men. The discovery of the empty tomb was first made by Mary Magdalene and two other women as they arrived to find the stone rolled away and saw an angel with an appearance like lightning and clothing white as snow. He announced that Jesus had risen from the dead and instructed the women to go and tell the disciples.

However, none of the disciples believed the women. I always wondered why. Didn’t Jesus tell the twelve that he would rise from the dead in three days? So why did they not believe? Firstly, women were not considered reliable witness in those days. As a matter of fact, women were not permitted to testify as witnesses in court proceedings. Their testimonies were not considered admissible. If someone had created this story as some suggest, they would not have had women discover the empty tomb. It just was not customary to accept the word of a woman. On the other hand, these were women that were well acquainted with the disciples and were more like family. Why was is so difficult for the disciples to believe Jesus rose from the dead? After all, Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead.

I suppose, it is the same reason why we may find it difficult to believe! It has never ever happened. No one ever raised themselves from the dead. Even if Jesus raised Lazarus, how could He raise Himself, once He was dead. Jesus often talked about the resurrection of the dead, when those in Hades would receive eternal life in paradise, but no one ever saw the dead spirits. The disciples probably never expected a bodily resurrection. They never expected to see Jesus walking on this Earth. They probably expected to see Him when they died and went to heaven themselves.

Thomas even disbelieved the disciples, when they told Him that they had seen Christ. He declared that “Unless I see the mark of the nails in his hands, and put my finger in the mark of the nails and my hand in his side, I will not believe” (John 20:25). Christ obliged. Thomas touched the wounds in His hands and in His side. Then Thomas believed. He not only believed, but he declared, “My Lord and my God!” (John 20:28), acknowledging that Jesus was God. They even gave Jesus “a piece of broiled fish, and he took it and ate in their presence” (Luke 24:42-43). A spirit would not be able to eat!

The fact remains, if Jesus did not rise from the dead, all that we believe would be in vain. It is the resurrection, which gives us hope for eternal life. This is what Christ promised. If He did not rise from the dead, He would be little more than a good teacher. However, because Christ kept His promise, we can be assured that His word is truth. No one else ever claimed to have risen from the dead. It is a bold claim.

There were Roman guards placed at the tomb to ensure that the disciples could not steal the body of Jesus. When earthquake revealed the empty tomb, some of the guards reported what had happened to the chief priests. The priests “devised a plan to give a large sum of money to the soldiers, telling them, “You must say, ‘His disciples came by night and stole him away while we were asleep.’ If this comes to the governor’s ears, we will satisfy him and keep you out of trouble.” So they took the money and did as they were directed” (Matthew 28: 12-15). According to Matthew, the Jews were well acquainted with the story that the disciples had stolen Christ’s body.

However, there are a few problems to this story. First, why would the disciples knowingly die for a lie? If they had truly stolen the body, they would not have been willing to die such horrific deaths, like crucifixion, beheading, being flayed to death from whipping, or being dragged by horses through the streets. Second, if Christ had not risen from the dead bodily, all the chief priests and Roman authorities had to do was produce the dead body. All rumors would have been immediately quashed.

Instead, rather that silencing the Christian movement, it gained momentum. Christians still stubbornly believe that Christ rose from the dead. Why do Christians still persist in their beliefs for two thousand years? It seems illogical and foolish.

For the message about the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God…Where is the one who is wise…Where is the debater of this age? Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world? For since, in the wisdom of God, the world did not know God through wisdom, God decided, through the foolishness of our proclamation, to save those who believe. For Jews demand signs and Greeks desire wisdom, but we proclaim Christ crucified” (1 Corinthians 1:18-23).

The proof of Christ, the Son of God who rose from the dead, is in the changed hearts and lives of those who love Him. The frightened and cowardly disciples who ran away and hid after Jesus was crucified became bold proclaimers of His resurrection and died horrific deaths for their beliefs. For two thousand years, even to this day, Christians have been martyred for their beliefs. We Christians claim to know Christ and to have experienced Him in our lives. We do not live by blind faith, but rather, live by what we know to be true, our personal encounters with the living God. Our faith is not based on just a feeling. Our hearts and lives are changed as we come to develop a relationship with our Lord. Every Christian has a story, an experience, which has changed them. Some have experienced a radical change over a short period of time, while others have undergone a gradual change over the years. What is your story?

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The Cross of Hope

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Most of us sadly watched the out-of-control fire of Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris on Monday, April 15.  We feared the worst as the blazes engulfed the cathedral, causing the renowned 300 ft. spire to come crashing down through the roof. Notre Dame Cathedral took nearly 200 years to build beginning in the 12th century and was treasured by Parisians and worldwide tourists alike. Yet remarkably, the gold cross at the altar glistens amidst the smoke and ashes. Below the cross, the Virgin Mary laments the death of her Son, as we lament the destruction of such a beautiful treasure built to glorify God.
For Christians, this scene is symbolic of our faith in Jesus Christ, the light of the world, who died to save us from the darkness of sin. The gold cross represents our hope in Him, He who sacrificed Himself to offer us eternal life in paradise. The cross represents Christ’s infinite love for us. It is an image, which encapsulates the essence of our reward for enduring the struggles of this life. For Christians, God always gives us a sign of hope in the midst of devastation.
This photograph also represents our indelible spirit created in the image of God. Deep within us, we possess the potential for pure goodness, which struggles to manifest itself within our hearts. It is the Holy Spirit in us, which desires to fill us with His light, His goodness and His love. It is that indelible spirit of genuine humanity, which we all possess, that illumines our hearts and minds. It is this light which overcomes the darkness of our tribulations, sufferings, and hardships in our lives. “My brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of any kind, consider it nothing but joy, because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance; and let endurance have its full effect, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking in nothing” (James 1:2-4). Enduring in faith results in victory, just as the cross in Notre Dame gloriously glistens amidst the smoke and ashes of the fire.
When Christians are baptized, we are immersed in water to crucify the flesh, to die to our worldly selves, so that we may rise out of the water as a new creation in Christ. “Do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? Therefore, we have been buried with him by baptism into death, so that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, so we too might walk in newness of life” (Romans 6:3-4). It is this spiritual death that allows our true selves, full of goodness and love, to emerge from the embers.   
That seed of humanity made in the image of God reminds us that we are all brothers and sisters in Christ. Even the irredeemable can be redeemed. We are commanded by Jesus to view our neighbors as Himself. “For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you gave me clothing, I was sick and you took care of me, I was in prison and you visited me…Truly I tell you, just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me” (Matthew 25:35-40). According to Rossi (2014), “Isn’t that what others are looking for from us, especially youth? Don’t they want us to see and communicate, sometimes without words, the goodness in them that they can’t see themselves.” When we see others as Christ with the potential for goodness, many rise out of the ruins of their lives to become transformed. Rossi also quoted Metropolitan Anthony of Sourozh’s homily of August 14, 1983, “Unless we can look at a person and see the beauty there is in this person, we can contribute nothing to him.”   
I have witnessed the transformation among my own students. When I speak to them with respect, appealing to their better inner self, they sit up more confidently. They relax and sometimes theirs walls begin to crumble. At times, their walls may have been built too high or too wide, but with perseverance and consistency, there is hope.
The golden cross of Notre Dame Cathedral reminds us of hope. It symbolizes the spirit of genuine humanity within us that is striving to be set free. We look beyond the devastation of suffering others have endured, beyond their pain and anger. We communicate goodness and love, compassion and generosity. Rather than judging we empathize. Rather than complaining about circumstances in our own lives, we focus on the blessings. Rather than running from our hardships, we enter headlong into Christ with endurance and joy because He has defeated death. The cross reminds us that Christ rose from the dead and that we, too, can rise out of the ashes of our lives.

 Rossi Ph.D., Albert S. 2014. Becoming a Healing Presence. Ancient Faith Publishing. Chesterton, Indiana. pp. 71.

Have a blessed Easter! Xristos Anesti! Christ is risen!
  
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Easter: Knowing the Love of God



The one theme which stands out above all during Great Lent as we approach Easter is how much God loves us. “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life. Indeed, God did not send the Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him” (John 3:16-17). God loves us infinitely more than we can imagine, and this is why He also gave us the Holy Spirit to be our comforter, and as He said, “I will never leave you or forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5). This is the focus of our faith. We believe that God became man, so that by dying on the cross, Christ can save us, and by rising from the dead, He can offer us eternal life. Christ’s love for us draws us to Him. Why would anyone want to resist such a love?

According to John, “the whole world lies under the sway of the wicked one” (1 John 5:19). That is a powerful force, which comes against us. The “wicked one” only knows how to lie, hate and destroy. This means that we need to be able to discern truth from among all the world’s lies. The truth is that Jesus is God and He loves each and every one of us. When we fully understand that truth, we cannot help but be in awe of what God has done through His Son. Christ was not just some man who happened to be executed because He wanted to be King of the Jews. Jesus was the only human who was perfect, never having sinned even once. He was pure goodness and love. Christ demonstrated His divine power through amazing miracles, including raising people from the dead. He often performed these miracles with thousands of witnesses present. Christ was God, who humbled Himself and willingly accepted crucifixion because He loves each and every one of us and wants us to be with Him for eternity.

As Christians, it is our responsibility to develop our spiritual maturity by cultivating a relationship with Christ. The best way to do that is through prayer, or in other words, just talk to Jesus. Prayer is the most available means to cultivate our relationship because it is always accessible, no matter where we are. Your prayers do not have to be too long or involved. Just express what is on your heart.

 Another way to develop our spiritual maturity is by participating in the Sacraments, especially taking Communion. The whole purpose of Communion is to receive remission of sins and to be united with Christ. It is a mystical union, which we experience through the Holy Spirit. Receiving the Eucharist is one way we energize the Holy Spirit within us, who brings us closer to God. During Lent, we should also participate in Confession. I have to confess, myself, that until this last year, I had only gone to Confession once in my life. I was terrified, especially because there were decades of sins I had never confessed. If you have reservations, one thing I can tell you is that only by facing a human being, like a priest, do we truly feel repentant of our sins. Confessing to a God who we cannot see is easy! I genuinely experienced the love of God when I participated in Confession and knew my sins had been forgiven.

We can also develop our spiritual maturity by remembering what we ourselves say each time we recite the Lord’s Prayer: “Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.” Preparing for Easter requires us to forgive all those who have sinned against us and hurt us. After all, by reciting the Lord’s Prayer, we are basically telling God to only forgive our sins, if we forgive others. That means God may not forgive our sins. Before approaching a person who you need to forgive, spend some time thinking about your own sins. Ask yourself, if you committed similar sins, and maybe even committed those same sins against the same person. If you really think about it, none of us is any better than someone else. We have all sinned. That is exactly why we must forgive others their sins. We show them compassion by forgiving them. Reconcile with anyone you are estranged. This may also mean that you must ask someone for forgiveness yourself. 

When you have prepared yourself during Lent, Easter will be much more joyous! In our Orthodox tradition, we spend Holy Week at church, attending services that recreate the events of Christ’s betrayal, crucifixion, and resurrection. The prayers and Bible passages are intended to remind us of the sacrifice Christ made for us. They are intended to put us in the right frame of mind, so that when Easter arrives, we have a deeper understanding of why we are so thankful that God offered us a way to Heaven. The Orthodox services during Holy Week are unique to our faith, particularly the services on Holy Thursday, Friday, and Saturday. On Thursday, Christ is placed on the cross. On Holy Friday afternoon, He is taken down from the cross and in the evening, we follow in a funeral procession to bury Him in His tomb. On Saturday morning we joyfully anticipate the Resurrection and at midnight we jubilantly sing “Christ is Risen,” while a darkened church is set alight by the flames of our candles. We experience the joy of Easter by reliving it!

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Descent into Hades


Crucifixion was meant to publicly shame criminals and political agitators. Jesus Christ, being the only human who never sinned, was neither a criminal nor a political dissenter. The perfectly innocent Jesus was crucified between two thieves. Even while on the cross Christ had mercy on His executioners and all those who conspired against Him and mocked Him. As He hung on the cross, agonizing in excruciating pain, He exclaimed “Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34). One of the criminals also being crucified began ridiculing Jesus saying, “Are you not the Messiah? Save yourself and us!” But the other rebuked him, saying, “Do you not fear God…we indeed have been condemned justly, for we are getting what we deserve for our deeds, but this man has done nothing wrong.” Then he said, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.” He (Christ) replied, “Truly I tell you, today you will be with me in Paradise” (Luke 23:39-43). At that moment, the repentant thief crucified with Jesus was promised eternal life in Paradise. This thief heard Christ forgive His murderers and recognized His innocence and goodness. He feared God and acknowledged that he deserved his punishment. He repented of his sin.  

But what happened after Jesus died? Where was He from 3:00 pm Friday afternoon until early that Sunday morning when He rose from the dead? Immediately after Jesus breathed His last, The earth shook, and the rocks were split. The tombs also were opened, and many bodies of the saints who had fallen asleep were raised. After his resurrection they came out of the tombs and entered the holy city and appeared to many” (Matthew 27:51-53). Not many are familiar with this passage, but remarkably, many of the dead were resurrected, and after Christ’s resurrection, they appeared to numerous people in Jerusalem. What happened here and why?

According to Paul in Ephesians 4:9, Christ “descended into the lower parts of the earth.” Peter tells us, Christ “was put to death in the flesh, but made alive in the spirit,  in which also he went and made a proclamation to the spirits in prison” (1 Peter 3:18-19).  Where are the spirits in prison? The place of the dead. The Jews called this place She'ol. It seems to be divided into two areas, Abraham’s Bosom and Hades. There is a story that Jesus told about the poor beggar, Lazarus (not the one raised from the dead) and the rich man. The rich man lived a life of luxury and feasting, while poor Lazarus, covered in sores and starving, only longed to eat the crumbs from the rich man’s table. Both men died, but the rich man went to a place of torment and Lazarus to Abraham’s Bosom. According to Luke16:26, Abraham told the rich man, “between you and us a great chasm has been fixed, so that those who might want to pass from here to you cannot do so, and no one can cross from there to us.” This is the place where Christ descended. This is the great victory, which He triumphantly seized from Satan.

Christ died and immediately His spirit was transported to the place of the dead. According to some early church fathers1, Jesus tricked the devil because He entered as a human. The place of the dead was Satan’s prison. Now, imagine…Christ arrived in Hades with pierced hands and feet and a wound in His side. What a magnificent sight it must have been! He must have appeared in a glorious light extinguishing the darkness of the underworld. The dead must have been bewildered to see God in their presence, in the place of the dead. Christ, being God, penetrated the devil’s dominion to proclaim the Good News to the lost. He came to call all to receive the reward of eternal life. He came to redeem any who would receive Him. Just like the repentant thief, those penitent spirits were also resurrected on Easter Sunday and accompanied Christ to Paradise. That somber place of death was now filled with joy and celebrating. Innumerable saints from the beginning of time were redeemed and appropriated from the clutches of the evil one. Satan must have been furious to lose so many. The demons must have been filled with terror. Christ broke open the gates of hell and freed those made righteous by the shedding of His blood. No wonder Paul proclaimed with joy (1 Corinthians 15:54-55):
“Death has been swallowed up in victory.”
“Where, O death, is your victory?
Where, O death, is your sting?”

Revelations 12 describes a great battle that broke out in heaven between the angels and the dragon, Satan. The devil and his demons fought against the angels but were defeated for the accuser of our brothers has been thrown down, who accuses them day and night before our God” (Revelation 12:10). Satan was cast down to the earth, along with his demons. He can no longer condemn those who have been saved by the blood of Christ’s sacrifice. They have been thoroughly cleansed of their sins. “Rejoice then, you heavens and those who dwell in them! But woe to the earth and the sea, for the devil has come down to you with great wrath, because he knows that his time is short!” (Revelation 12:12). When Christ descended into the underworld, He set free the captives and defeated the devil, revoking his power over man.   

Christ descended into the place of the dead and saved those in bondage. He rose from the dead releasing all those who received Him. Heaven must have been astir with all its new inhabitants, rejoicing and praising God for such an overwhelming victory! Adam and Eve, Noah, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, Jacob’s son Joseph and his eleven brothers, David and Solomon, Moses, Isaiah, Jeremiah, Daniel and all the prophets must have been elated to finally be with their Lord. All the Gentiles who did not know God during their lifetime were also able to choose to receive Christ. Jesus brought the Good News to all who would receive Him.

Christ’s Resurrection Day, Easter or Pascha, was a grand reunion of all those from the beginning of time, who chose to love God but were imprisoned by sin and death. We, too, have been freed from death. Christ redeemed us. Now, all who love Christ are permitted into heaven, into the presence of God. This is the significance of Easter. We rejoice because all from Adam until the last day can receive eternal life in the loving presence of God. It is a decision we make of our own free will. Rejoice! For Christ is Risen! Truly He is Risen!       

1 Bishop Hilarion Alfeyev, “Christ the Conqueror of Hell,” lecture given on November 5, 2002, retrieved from  http://orthodoxeurope.org/page/11/1/5.aspx

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The Awe and Mystery of the Crucifixion and Resurrection


As Christians, we have heard time and time and time again, the story of the Crucifixion and the Resurrection, perhaps so many times that Holy Week and Easter have become times of fasting and feasting without the awe and mystery of the events, which occurred two thousand years ago. To truly appreciate the magnitude of these events, we must contemplate the person of Jesus Christ. We must comprehend who He is? Jesus is called the Word by John: In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was GodAll things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made…He was in the world, and the world was made by him, and the world knew him not…And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth…No man hath seen God at any time, the only begotten Son, which is in the bosom of the Father, he hath declared him (made him known) (John 1:1-18 KLV). Jesus of Nazareth is a mystery to us because we cannot fully comprehend God, yet, as Christians, we know Jesus is God. We cannot fully know God, but we can know God through Christ.
As best as you can, take a moment and envision God in three persons, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, together as one in eternity. Paint a picture for yourself of the three as one, planning to create our universe, knowing that the pinnacle of their creation would be man who would reject God’s love and choose evil. It was at a time when there was no time that God chose to sacrifice Himself to save us, long before we even existed. Christ, the Son of God, seated on His throne of glory, immeasurably loved by His Father and worshipped by angels, would choose to take on flesh and become a human being, knowing that He would suffer betrayal, rejection, and crucifixion. Have you ever been betrayed or rejected by someone you loved deeply? Knowing this, would you choose the horrifically painful death on the cross for that person? 
When we stop and contemplate our all-powerful God, who willingly took on flesh for us, so He could die on the cross and save us, we are in awe! Reverence and wonder fill our spirits! We drop down to our knees in humility and gratitude and fear! “For God so loved the world (each and every one us) that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life” (John 3:16). Amazingly, God offers us an invitation to live eternally in His love. “But God proves his love for us in that while we still were sinners Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8). Incredibly, He chose to die for us, even though we are not worthy of His love. We are not able to love Him perfectly as He loves us, for each time we sin, we reject His divine love and choose evil. When we come to realize this, we are stirred by a profound repentance for our sins. Our flesh may be weak, but our spirit loves our Lord. “See what love the Father has given us, that we should be called children of God” (1 John 3:1). Even as sinners, God desires a relationship with us, not just a friendship, but rather, He wishes to call us His sons and daughters! He destined us for adoption as his children through Jesus Christ, according to the good pleasure of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace that he freely bestowed on us in the Beloved” (Ephesians 1:5-6). What a good and loving God He is!
The cross, an inhumane means of suffering a painful, shameful, public death, was meant to produce fear. God transformed this instrument of execution into a symbol of hope, life and salvation. Through the Resurrection, God confounds evil by recreating the cross into a glorious banner of our faith. Thus, Isaiah’s prophecy is fulfilled, “he will swallow up death forever” (Isaiah 25:8). Consequently in 1 Corinthians 15:54-55, Paul triumphantly declares:
“Death has been swallowed up in victory.”
“Where, O death, is your victory?
    Where, O death, is your sting?”

We are astonished and in awe that Christ rose from the dead to reveal Himself as God, to free us from sin, and to offer us eternal life through salvation! Through the resurrection, we possess the hope of eternal rewards in the presence of God, cleansed from all evil, in communion with His infinite love, destined to live in unimaginable joy and peace. Paul refers to the prophecy in Isaiah 64:4 when he asserts the mysteries of our heavenly blessings (1 Corinthians 2:9):

But, as it is written,
“What no eye has seen, nor ear heard,
    nor the human heart conceived,
what God has prepared for those who love him.”

As Easter approaches, ask the Holy Spirit to reintroduce you to those feelings of childlike wonder in the awesome mysteries of the crucifixion and resurrection. Allow yourself to experience God’s infinite love revealed to us through the cross of Christ. Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal Christ to you in all His humility, meekness, and mercy, for this is the kind of love He offers us. God humbled Himself and offered to wash our feet as He washed the feet of the disciples. He offers Himself to us each time we participate in Holy Communion. We receive the blood and body of Christ to spark that mystical union we have through the Holy Spirit who lives within us as Christians. When you go forward to receive the Eucharist, know with all your being that Christ lives in you!
If you have not known Christ, ask God to reveal Him to you! God knows what it takes to make Himself real to you. Open your heart! He will create a miracle within you, and you will rejoice in experiencing His overwhelmingly, infinite, divine love firsthand. There is nothing else like it!         

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The Three Rs



Great Lent has begun. For the Greek Orthodox, this generally means fasting for 40 days and the 7 days of Holy Week. Many participate in the Lenten fast in diverse ways, doing what they feel they can to make this a time of preparation for celebrating the resurrection on Easter. Some give up certain types of food, others give up T.V. or Facebook, and yet others prepare by increasing their time of prayer and almsgiving. For the Orthodox, this is not a time of gloominess or sadness. It is a time of joy in anticipation of the glorious resurrection and thankfulness for God’s mercy. The purpose of fasting is to discipline our body by bringing it under subjection to our will. This is a way for us to practice the disciplining of our minds, as we bring it under subjection to God’s will. The most significant purpose of Great Lent is to spiritually strengthen us and to develop a more intimate relationship to God.

Cultivating our spiritual growth aids us in meeting the challenges of our everyday lives. It teaches us how to enhance the joy and peace in our lives. We can do this by practicing what I call the three Rs: reading, reconnecting and reflecting. During lent we should spend more time reading the Bible, reconnecting with God through prayer, and reflecting on Christ, as well as our own weaknesses.

Reading the Bible gives us a foundation from which we can begin. It reminds us what it means to be a Christian and allows us to understand God through Christ. No matter how often we read a passage, new insights will be gleaned each time because our own spiritual development changes as we are confronted by new challenges in life or as we gain greater understanding. We build upon what we have learned in the past, allowing us to mature in the faith. As we mature, we ready ourselves for new insights or a deeper understanding of our faith.

Prayer can be practiced through reading prayers of the church, praying for our loved ones or just by talking to God. You can dedicate a specific time of your day or you can talk to God in your car or while you work. One crucial component to include in our prayer time is listening. God speaks to us through the Holy Spirit who dwells within us. When God speaks to us, His messages are filled with love, wisdom and truth. He teaches us, guides us and comforts us. Listening to God is crucial in developing our spiritual growth.

Reflecting on Christ means we contemplate His sacrifice for us and His love for us. We remind ourselves that He is God who became man to die for us. We remember that He came into an evil world and lived a perfect life full of love, grace and truth. We consider His teachings, His miracles, and His suffering for us. We remember all the blessings He has bestowed upon us and are thankful. But we also reflect on our own weaknesses. This begins by remembering our sins and repenting. This is a process we prefer to avoid. However, reflecting on our sins and weaknesses allows us the opportunity to learn from our mistakes. It provides an occasion to ask God to guide us in overcoming these frailties. It allows us to learn how to love God and others more perfectly. After all, Christ gave us only two commandments: Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself. All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments (Matthew 22: 37-40). Our life’s purpose as Christians is to love. We must not allow ourselves to rationalize our sins or offer excuses when we do not act in love?   

For example, many of us struggle with anger at one time or another. The Bible teaches us that it is acceptable to be angry, but we should not sin out of anger. The key issue is how do we respond when we are angry. There are two reasons for anger, righteous anger for being treated unjustly or anger motivated by pride. We can be angry when someone has treated us unjustly or has sinned against us. This can be considered righteous anger, but we should reflect on whether we have caused the behavior because of our own sin. In other words, we have no right to be angry at someone who might have reacted to our own hurtful words or actions. We may also become angry toward someone who has insulted us and therefore wounded our pride. In these cases, we should always remain humble and practice self-control.

Once upon a time, there was a peaceful driver, who found himself in traffic on the 405 freeway. As Mr. Peaceful was motoring along, an impatient driver swerved in front of him and nearly caused a collision. Mr. Peaceful became angry, especially since he had to slam on his brakes to avoid an accident. However, he realized that he was safe and decided to pray for Ms. Impatient, who may yet cause a collision and hurt herself or someone else. Mr. Peaceful continued driving along calmly, safe and sound. However, Ms. Impatient was soon cut-off by a more aggressive motorist. She became so angry. She was not going to be outdone. Ms. Impatient decided to teach that motorist a lesson, so she sped up and swerved around Mr. Aggressive and purposely came so close, she nearly collided with his little sports car. Mr. Aggressive had to slam on his brakes, causing the car behind him to crash right into him. Fortunately, God saw what was happening and sent His angels to prevent anyone from dying, but Mr. Aggressive suffered various injuries, including broken ribs and was rushed to the hospital. Mr. Aggressive should not be too angry because his actions caused Ms. Impatient to become angry, but Ms. Impatient allowed her anger to cause an accident. She saw what happened in her rearview mirror and felt bad for her poor behavior. Mr. Aggressive, on the other hand, would love to find Ms. Impatient and teach her a lesson. Both Ms. Impatient and Mr. Aggressive suffered from an inflated sense of pride, which led them to poor choices, but at least Ms. Impatient recognized her sin and repented and wished she had stopped to help.

When we acknowledge our sins, we can grow from the experience. Mr. Peaceful did not allow another’s actions to affect his peace and joy. He forgave Ms. Impatient and was therefore able to remain peaceful by keeping his conscience pure. By reflecting on her actions, Ms. Impatient learned from her mistake and will probably drive more respectfully in the future. Mr. Aggressive, on the other hand, will most likely find himself in a similar situation in the future. I pray that God watches over him and keeps him safe.


Remember the three Rs during Great Lent. Spend more time reading the Bible, reconnecting with God through prayer and reflecting on Christ, as well as on your sins and weaknesses. During this Lenten period, may God perform a great work in all of our hearts to allow us to grow spiritually, to love more perfectly and to develop our relationship with Him more intimately. 
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