Loving Yourself

You can only act in ways that arise from within you. A trigger activates your Conditioned Mind and you act accordingly. Love yourself and as the mind settles what’s within you will change…

Unity with others is dependent on learning to love yourself unconditionally because if you judge yourself there’s no way you won’t judge others. In your judgements, your unity with yourself and others will be fleeting at best. Unity with humanity doesn’t start with humanity, it starts with you because if you can’t love yourself there’s no way you’ll will be able to love anyone else. You may be able to love people for a time if they’re as you want them to be, but they remaining that way will also be fleeting at best. This ability to love yourself will only occur when you know our own mind, and only in the sense of how it’s the cause of not loving yourself.

Think of this, when you act in a way that’s not in your best interest, it comes from you. You unconsciously act in a way that isn’t beneficial to your own well being; this is done all the time. These acts come from your own mind. It’s not the way that you act that causes the problem, wanting it different causes the problem, even though it being different is impossible because its already been done. So love yourself and the next time something triggers your Conditioned Mind to act in a way that’s not in your best interest, you may be able to pause and not do it, but if you do act in a way that’s not beneficial, move on. When the mind settles enough through loving yourself, what’s within you will change with the understanding you are enough just as you are because it’s what’s there. Just know there’s always room to change what’s not loving or beneficial…