Being with the way things are goes a long way in providing oneself with the acceptance that allows the maturity of not needing to reach for comfort in whatever form it takes on…
Seeking self satisfying comfort is a sign of immaturity. It’s the I want, what I want, when I want it mind. Self seeking is directly linked to your level of maturity. If you don’t think this is so, what’s the difference in what you use now as opposed to the comfort pacifier that was used as an infant? Only the object has changed, the same immature reaching for comfort is in effect. Stop and see the baby in place who doesn’t like what’s being written here. Your feelings may be hurt, but I don’t care if this article allows you to see the truth needed to act in a mature manner. You will know immaturity is in place by how you have to reach for comfort. This takes on many many forms and unless the mind is very settled, immaturity and reaching for comfort which go hand and hand, remains.
Acting mature will only occur when comfort seeking ceases. Judging is immature, jealousy also is. Greed, hate, and wanting life different (delusion) is immature. Relying on a program is immature, they’re used as a pacifier to provide comfort. Matter of fact anything that’s reached for is a sign of immaturity because it all falls under the guise of a comfort pacifier. Being with the way things are goes a long way in providing the acceptance that allows the maturity of not needing to reach for a comfort pacifier in whatever form it takes on…
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