Suicide and Despair



Lately, there seems to be a rash of suicides that has shocked our country. Well-known celebrities, who seem to have the world at their feet have experienced depression and despair and have taken their own lives. Some we have lost include Robin Williams, Kate Spade, Jonathan Brandis, Kurt Cobain, Alexander McQueen, Don Cornelius, Simone Battle, Owen Wilson, and Lee Thompson Young. Then there are those who accidently killed themselves through alcohol and drug abuse, such as Amy Winehouse, Whitney Houston and her daughter Bobbi Kristina Brown, Prince, Michael Jackson, Elvis Presley, Janis Joplin, Jimi Hendrix, Jim Morrison and the list goes on. In addition, there is an increasing trend of mass shootings ending in suicide across the country.  

The map below shows the 2016 results of a report compiled by the Centers of Disease Control and Prevention1. The statistics are alarming. According to the report, 45,000 lives were lost to suicide in 2016, more than twice the number of homicides. Among ages 15-34, suicide is the second-leading cause of death2. Much of the problem is due to alcohol and drug abuse. “The CDC has calculated that suicides from opioid overdoses nearly doubled between 1999 and 20142.

As an educator for 23 years and more currently a counselor at a school for at-risk students, I have increasingly been involved with students who have considered killing themselves. Last year our district formally introduced a “safety plan” to address the increasing cases of depression and thoughts of suicide among our youth. We hear these incidents more frequently in the news daily. I have stopped watching the news. It greatly saddens me to hear stories of depression and despair and wasted lives.




There is a war intensifying in our world that is being overlooked. Satan has declared all out war, especially on our youth, that goes unnoticed. In Revelation 12, a war in heaven is described when the Archangel Michael victoriously led his angels against Satan and cast him out of heaven and into the earth. The Kingdom of Heaven rejoiced because the “accuser” has been conquered. He was conquered by the blood of Christ, who is able to save us and redeem us from Satan. However, a warning is given: “Woe to the earth and the sea, for the devil has come down to you with great wrath, because he knows that his time is short!” (Revelation 12:12). The battle is escalating, and we can see it in the news daily.  

Our society at large sees these social problems of suicides, mass shootings, and violence as an increase in mental health issues. Let us not deceive ourselves. This is a war between good and evil, an all-out confrontation between God and an angry Satan, who knows he does not have much time left. The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy” (John 10:10). This war is between love and hatred. The devil intends to steal as many as he can from the loving arms of God. The devil uses our selfishness to drive others out of our lives. He uses loneliness to isolate us from God and those who love us. He uses depression to stir hatred of ourselves.  He uses drugs and alcohol to destroy any love left in us. Satan drives us to despair. This war affects our young people the most, and they have no defense. There is no defense in a Godless world. Those who have succumbed to suicide and violence live in a Godless world of their own making.

More and more each day, God is being removed from our society. He was removed from our schools when prayer was prohibited and from public places when the commandments were removed from the Oklahoma State Capitol. God was removed from our speech, when it became inappropriate to say we were on Christmas or Easter vacation. Now we take winter and spring breaks. Christians who believe that homosexuality is wrong have been labeled “haters,” and those who profess their Christian beliefs are mocked and ridiculed as narrow-minded and naïve. The German supermarket Lidl and Nestlé have removed the cross from the image of the Anastasis Church in Santorini on their labels so as “not to hurt sensibility of other religions.3

Only the love of God can conquer evil. Depression causes us to fall into a state of self-preoccupation. It isolates us from others, especially from those we love and love us. It is a form of selfishness, which can lead to despair and hopelessness. Depression can only be staved off by coming out of the cycle of self-preoccupation by showing love to others. When we give love, we are giving our life purpose and meaning. Christ taught, “It is more blessed to give than to receive” (Acts 20:35). The Greek word for blessed translated means “happy, having a peaceful soul.” Thus, acting in love and giving love is what makes us happy in life. The only hope we have is in Christ, who brings light into the darkness of our world and who gives us the ability to love others as He loves us. “But God proves his love for us in that while we still were sinners Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8). A godless world has no hope, since there is no heaven or eternal life. A godless world does not know the love of God.

As the world darkens around us, it is up to Christians to be lights of the world through our love and good works. “You are the light of the world. A city built on a hill cannot be hid. No one after lighting a lamp puts it under the bushel basket, but on the lampstand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father in heaven” (Matthew 5:14-16). We are Christ’s ambassadors to the world. When God places opportunities in our paths, we must take up His banner and “pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance, gentleness.  Fight the good fight of the faith; take hold of the eternal life, to which you were called” (1 Timothy 6:12-13).

For those who do not yet know the love of Christ, simply ask Christ to reveal Himself to you. Repent of your sins, of those times you did not show love toward others. Christ will respond, and you will have an opportunity to know Him personally. Ask Him to lead you to a church where you will grow as a Christian and thrive. Ask Christ to reveal His love to you. You will be blown away!  

If you know anyone who suffers from depression or has expressed thoughts of suicide, you can call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline phone number at 1-800-273-8255.




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