The Difficulty of Doing Nothing

Without awareness of the mind becoming agitated in the absence of something to do, the Conditioned Mind will create story after story just so it has something to do.

The most difficult thing I have ever done in my life is to learn how to do nothing in spite of the conditioning in place telling me to do. To not give in to the mind agitations that tell me to do this, do that, reach for this or reach for that, is so difficult because of the lack of discipline to just be and also the lack of understanding of why not to do is so difficult. Even with discipline and this understanding, it’s difficult because of all the outer influences and inner conditioning. To not do is not something many master, I’m not talking about sitting in meditation or taking a nap, I mean being wide awake without having to do something. For forty nine years this wasn’t noticeable to me because I was never still long enough to be aware of any agitation. I like so many was a doer; a slave to my Conditioned Mind.

For some this doing doesn’t seem like much of an issue because the doings aren’t noticeably destructive, but make no mistake a doing is a doing and one is a slave to doing regardless how productive or subtle it may seem. Without awareness of the mind becoming agitated in the absence of something to do, the Conditioned Mind creates story after story just so it has something to do. The stories base will be whatever conditioning you have in place. You can only do what the conditioning in place dictates and without this agitation being noticed, the conditioning is usually based in doing something for selfish reasons. Even if one wants to save the world, who says the world needs saving. Not doing allows for one to truly be an instrument, not by doing by simply being, but this will only occur if you notice you don’t have to do.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 04/10/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am choosing to stay strong for all the good I want to experience and enjoy, to celebrate and share, and to positively remember and reflect on later! I am choosing to learn from the bad times and rejoice the good times worth reflecting upon! I am choosing to continue positively for greater moments and to continue for greater days…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Attach Less Suffer Less

The need to search for a so called spiritual path is there because one wants to feel better and suffer less, but why there’s a search to begin with is because of the attachment to feel better.

Not feeling well mentally is a Conditioned Mind creation and the suffering this causes is a direct result of attaching to the label “not feeling well”. Attach less and you will suffer less. This not attaching takes nothing to occur, it’s simply a matter of not adding the things that cause suffering, with the main thing being not adding attachment. Suffering has nothing to do with what happens, learning to not attach to the things that cause suffering has everything to do if one is to suffer or not. Although the results of what happens affect you at times because of attachment, most times what happens doesn’t happen to you it happens to someone else; even though it doesn’t really happen to anyone, it just happens. This isn’t said to ignore what happens, it’s said because it becomes a tool to use to see how its the attachment and not the actual event that causes suffering.

Many unpleasant circumstances arise and even some horrific things occur, but on the opposite side some beautiful things also happen. The key here is to take them all the same so the unbalanced attached emotions don’t arise and allow the arisen circumstances to control you. From birth to death and all the things in between, emotions will arise and there will be attachment to them, the only difference in them will be how much attachment there is. Attach less and you will suffer less or not and allow the arisen circumstances to control you as if you were an emotional puppet on a string…

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 04/09/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
"I am looking beyond the difficulties and challenges for better moments and good times! I am focusing on better situations and circumstances beyond the negative opinions and undesirable facts! I am concentrating on the positive side of things, the greater beneficial outcomes, and ideal results I want..."
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Turning to Each Other

No one is an island regardless of how spiritual they are and this is because the more spiritual one is the more it’s understood there’s only one energy and we are one.

Someone posted an article yesterday about sunflowers which I found interesting. Although I knew sunflowers turned towards the sun to absorb its energy, I didn’t know they pointed to each other when it was cloudy out to absorb each other’s energy. This got me reflecting on my own process of awakening and how I too point to the light (silence) to absorb its energy, and how I also point to others to absorb their energy. To me no one is an island regardless of how spiritual they are and this is because the more spiritual one is the more it’s understood there’s only one energy and we rely on each other whether it’s sunny out or cloudy. With this understanding firmly in place it allows one to draw on another’s energy. This is the Law of Attraction, your love and the energy drawn on produces results of that energy.

This energy of the sunflower is of love, but there’s a lot of energy that isn’t of love. These energies aren’t different, they only seem different because their frequency is different. I say the sunflower energy is of love because of the results, flowers are beautiful and useful so how can their energy not be of love. I’ve learned that just because I emanate energy of love it doesn’t mean everyone will love me back. This has nothing to do with me as everyone has their own conditioning in place and will act accordingly. Although everyone has the ability to love, not everyone is on the frequency of love so I turn to those who are on the same frequency as me and I’ve found that although I frequently turn to the light, it’s turning to the love of others that allows me to love.

Self~Empowerment: Today’s Self-Communicate – 04/08/18~

Today’s self-empowering communication to positively affect yourself:
 
Repeat with me: I AM SUCCESS EVERY MOMENT!
 
“I am thankful for this day of opportunity to enjoy the obvious blessings in my life! I am thankful for the obvious good experiences, awesome memories, great relationships, beneficial interactions, and grand adventures while I look forward to more of the same in my future! I am thankful for this day to enjoy my opportunities of joy, my chances of bliss, my options of improvement, and my alternatives to positively affect my moments…”
 
to continue a greater life!
 
Great day to you, as a great day continues~
 
Edward F. T. Charfauros
Life Guide and Author

Descent into Hades


Crucifixion was meant to publicly shame criminals and political agitators. Jesus Christ, being the only human who never sinned, was neither a criminal nor a political dissenter. The perfectly innocent Jesus was crucified between two thieves. Even while on the cross Christ had mercy on His executioners and all those who conspired against Him and mocked Him. As He hung on the cross, agonizing in excruciating pain, He exclaimed “Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34). One of the criminals also being crucified began ridiculing Jesus saying, “Are you not the Messiah? Save yourself and us!” But the other rebuked him, saying, “Do you not fear God…we indeed have been condemned justly, for we are getting what we deserve for our deeds, but this man has done nothing wrong.” Then he said, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.” He (Christ) replied, “Truly I tell you, today you will be with me in Paradise” (Luke 23:39-43). At that moment, the repentant thief crucified with Jesus was promised eternal life in Paradise. This thief heard Christ forgive His murderers and recognized His innocence and goodness. He feared God and acknowledged that he deserved his punishment. He repented of his sin.  

But what happened after Jesus died? Where was He from 3:00 pm Friday afternoon until early that Sunday morning when He rose from the dead? Immediately after Jesus breathed His last, “The earth shook, and the rocks were split. The tombs also were opened, and many bodies of the saints who had fallen asleep were raised. After his resurrection they came out of the tombs and entered the holy city and appeared to many” (Matthew 27:51-53). Not many are familiar with this passage, but remarkably, many of the dead were resurrected, and after Christ’s resurrection, they appeared to numerous people in Jerusalem. What happened here and why?

According to Paul in Ephesians 4:9, Christ “descended into the lower parts of the earth.” Peter tells us, Christ “was put to death in the flesh, but made alive in the spirit,  in which also he went and made a proclamation to the spirits in prison” (1 Peter 3:18-19).  Where are the spirits in prison? The place of the dead. The Jews called this place She'ol. It seems to be divided into two areas, Abraham’s Bosom and Hades. There is a story that Jesus told about the poor beggar, Lazarus (not the one raised from the dead) and the rich man. The rich man lived a life of luxury and feasting, while poor Lazarus, covered in sores and starving, only longed to eat the crumbs from the rich man’s table. Both men died, but the rich man went to a place of torment and Lazarus to Abraham’s Bosom. According to Luke16:26, Abraham told the rich man, “between you and us a great chasm has been fixed, so that those who might want to pass from here to you cannot do so, and no one can cross from there to us.” This is the place where Christ descended. This is the great victory, which He triumphantly seized from Satan.

Christ died and immediately His spirit was transported to the place of the dead. According to some early church fathers1, Jesus tricked the devil because He entered as a human. The place of the dead was Satan’s prison. Now, imagine…Christ arrived in Hades with pierced hands and feet and a wound in His side. What a magnificent sight it must have been! He must have appeared in a glorious light extinguishing the darkness of the underworld. The dead must have been bewildered to see God in their presence, in the place of the dead. Christ, being God, penetrated the devil’s dominion to proclaim the Good News to the lost. He came to call all to receive the reward of eternal life. He came to redeem any who would receive Him. Just like the repentant thief, those penitent spirits were also resurrected on Easter Sunday and accompanied Christ to Paradise. That somber place of death was now filled with joy and celebrating. Innumerable saints from the beginning of time were redeemed and appropriated from the clutches of the evil one. Satan must have been furious to lose so many. The demons must have been filled with terror. Christ broke open the gates of hell and freed those made righteous by the shedding of His blood. No wonder Paul proclaimed with joy (1 Corinthians 15:54-55):
“Death has been swallowed up in victory.”
“Where, O death, is your victory?
Where, O death, is your sting?”

Revelations 12 describes a great battle that broke out in heaven between the angels and the dragon, Satan. The devil and his demons fought against the angels but were defeated “for the accuser of our brothers has been thrown down, who accuses them day and night before our God” (Revelation 12:10). Satan was cast down to the earth, along with his demons. He can no longer condemn those who have been saved by the blood of Christ’s sacrifice. They have been thoroughly cleansed of their sins. “Rejoice then, you heavens and those who dwell in them! But woe to the earth and the sea, for the devil has come down to you with great wrath, because he knows that his time is short!” (Revelation 12:12). When Christ descended into the underworld, He set free the captives and defeated the devil, revoking his power over man.   

Christ descended into the place of the dead and saved those in bondage. He rose from the dead releasing all those who received Him. Heaven must have been astir with all its new inhabitants, rejoicing and praising God for such an overwhelming victory! Adam and Eve, Noah, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, Jacob’s son Joseph and his eleven brothers, David and Solomon, Moses, Isaiah, Jeremiah, Daniel and all the prophets must have been elated to finally be with their Lord. All the Gentiles who did not know God during their lifetime were also able to choose to receive Christ. Jesus brought the Good News to all who would receive Him.

Christ’s Resurrection Day, Easter or Pascha, was a grand reunion of all those from the beginning of time, who chose to love God but were imprisoned by sin and death. We, too, have been freed from death. Christ redeemed us. Now, all who love Christ are permitted into heaven, into the presence of God. This is the significance of Easter. We rejoice because all from Adam until the last day can receive eternal life in the loving presence of God. It is a decision we make of our own free will. Rejoice! For Christ is Risen! Truly He is Risen!       

1 Bishop Hilarion Alfeyev, “Christ the Conqueror of Hell,” lecture given on November 5, 2002, retrieved from  http://orthodoxeurope.org/page/11/1/5.aspx

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