Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts

The Spirit of Christmas



Christmas is the birthday of our Lord, Jesus Christ. What an awesome gift God gave us on the day Christ was born. God clothed Himself in flesh and entered our physical reality as a vulnerable little baby. Oh, how He loves us! It is fitting that the Christmas season should be a time of giving. All around the world, Christians and even non-believers celebrate Christmas in some way. The map above shows how many countries celebrate Christmas as a public holiday. I find it fascinating that many, who are not Christians, still exchange gifts and practice some of the traditions. What a powerful legacy Christ left us! He taught us the value of giving, the power of love. Thus, we describe the feeling we experience from giving at this time of year as the spirit of Christmas. Even non-believers remember and honor Christ in an indirect way.

Personally, I find the Christmas season in the United States a bit too commercial and secularized. It is very difficult to find Christmas cards with a nativity scene. Christmas songs are about reindeer, rocking around the Christmas tree, jingling bells, a winter wonderland, or Frosty the snowman. I enjoy the traditional songs, like “Silent Night,” “Angels We Have Heard on High” or “What Child Is This?” Shopping becomes so stressful with people fighting for parking spots or losing patience while waiting in lines. Yet, everyone seems intent on finding that right gift for their loved ones. Despite the commercialism, those of us who exchange gifts discover that the greater joy is watching a loved one open the gift we have given, rather than opening gifts ourselves.

Many do not realize that Santa Claus is a real person, a saint of the church. The myth of Santa Claus, which is a German translation for St. Nicholas, was the real live Archbishop of Myra in southern Asia Minor, who lived during the fourth century. He does not have a sleigh with reindeers that fly throughout the world on Christmas Eve delivering gifts to children. Instead, he inherited his parents’ estate and promptly gave away his riches to the needy. He was known for his generosity, and therefore, exemplifies the spirit of Christmas. The following story is an example:

Many do not realize that Santa Claus is a real person, a saint of the church. The myth of Santa Claus, which is a German translation for St. Nicholas, was the real live Archbishop of Myra in southern Asia Minor, who lived during the fourth century. He does not have a sleigh with reindeers that fly throughout the world on Christmas Eve delivering gifts to children. Instead, he inherited his parents’ estate and promptly gave away his riches to the needy. He was known for his generosity. Thus, he exemplifies the spirit of Christmas. The following story is an example:

“There was a certain formerly rich inhabitant of Patara, whom Saint Nicholas saved from great sin. The man had three grown daughters, and in desperation he planned to sell their bodies, so they would have money for food. The saint, learning of the man’s poverty and of his wicked intention, secretly visited him one night and threw a sack of gold through the window. With the money the man arranged an honorable marriage for his daughter. Saint Nicholas also provided gold for the other daughters, thereby saving the family from falling into spiritual destruction. In bestowing charity, Saint Nicholas always strove to do this secretly and to conceal his good deeds.” 1

Those of us who are Christians, should strive to truly live the spirit of Christmas this year. We can be patient in those long lines. We can refuse to become upset when someone sneaks into that parking space that you had already begun to enter. We can give a gift to someone who may not expect it or make a donation for those in need. We should not neglect to thank God for all the blessings He has bestowed upon us and our families. The greatest gift we can give to our families and friends is the gift of time. Spend more intimate time communicating in person, rather than through a text on our phones or a message on social media.

One day, I was at a restaurant having dinner. A mother was having dinner with her two children. The entire time I observed her, which was about 30 minutes, she was on her phone, texting or doing something. The two children were playing games on their phones. None of them spoke a word, except to announce that it was time to go. It seemed like such a wasted opportunity. To me this was so sad! Instead, we should spend more time with one another, sharing experiences together, laughing, creating joyous memories. When we are gone and have left this life, all that will remain for our loved ones are those treasured memories.




Have a beautiful Christmas filled with God’s love and many of His blessings! May the joy of Christ’s birth fill your hearts to overflowing!  

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Merry Christmas!


Enjoy the Christmas story (Luke 2:1-20):

In those days a decree went out from Emperor Augustus that all the world should be registered. This was the first registration and was taken while Quirinius was governor of Syria. All went to their own towns to be registered. Joseph also went from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to the city of David called Bethlehem, because he was descended from the house and family of David. He went to be registered with Mary, to whom he was engaged and who was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for her to deliver her child. And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in bands of cloth, and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn.
In that region there were shepherds living in the fields, keeping watch over their flock by night. Then an angel of the Lord stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. 10 But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid; for see—I am bringing you good news of great joy for all the people: 11 to you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is the Messiah,[a] the Lord. 12 This will be a sign for you: you will find a child wrapped in bands of cloth and lying in a manger.” 13 And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host,[b] praising God and saying,

14 “Glory to God in the highest heaven,
    and on earth peace among those whom he favors!”[c]

15 When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let us go now to Bethlehem and see this thing that has taken place, which the Lord has made known to us.” 16 So they went with haste and found Mary and Joseph, and the child lying in the manger. 17 When they saw this, they made known what had been told them about this child; 18 and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds told them. 19 But Mary treasured all these words and pondered them in her heart. 20 The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all they had heard and seen, as it had been told them.

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This Christmas Season




The Christmas season has become so commercial, hurried, and even stressful at times. There are so many things on our to-do lists. At the same time, it is the season to cherish family and friends, to experience joy by giving gifts and to enjoy the lights and Christmas music. Each year, as I think about Christmas, I become joyful, and at the same time, anxious. My senses bathe in the Christmas sights and sounds, and yet I fret over what I should buy everyone on my Christmas list, when I know they already have everything.

This year I thought about adding God to my Christmas list. Now, that is someone who definitely has everything He wants. What could I possibly give God? Naturally, the first thing that comes to mind is to give God thanks for all the blessings He has bestowed upon me. I have much for which to be thankful. I decided to Google Bible verses about giving gifts to God and what kind of gifts please Him. Do you know what came up? Lists of gifts God gives to us! There was one verse that I remembered from Psalms 51:16-17:

For you have no delight in sacrifice;
    if I were to give a burnt offering, you would not be pleased.

The sacrifice acceptable to God is a broken spirit;
    a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise.


A broken and contrite heart is when one experiences sorrow for the sins he has committed, a deep genuine sorrow causing one to become humbled. I have felt this many times, more than I can count. I pray that God will forgive me and guide me in the future. I know in my heart that all God desires is that we love Him and love our fellow human beings. He asks us to be kind and compassionate, generous and caring. In the hustle and bustle of this season of Christ’s birth, I have decided to make it a priority to truly enjoy and appreciate those who He has placed in my life, my friends, family, co-workers and all the students He has entrusted in my care. I will enjoy even the passersby in my life, who I may only meet once in my life, my fellow shoppers, salespeople, drivers, everyone. I will slow down long enough to experience the joy of the Christmas season.

This means that I will forgive the crazy driver who cuts me off, almost hitting my car, to take the parking space I was pulling in to. I will politely forgive the shopper, who jumps in front of me to hurriedly grab the last item on the shelf that I was reaching for. I will forgive the rude salesperson, who becomes impatient with me because I cannot find my credit card in my purse. Forgiveness is the greatest gift we can offer God, especially if we forgive those who have hurt us deeply without cause.

Christ is our example. He never sinned, which means He never hurt anyone. He was always kind and compassionate, full of love for everyone. Yet, He was rejected, mocked, beaten and crucified. Some were offended by the truth He spoke, but even the truth did not warrant such hostility and violence. As Jesus hung dying on the cross, He forgave His executioners and all those who hated Him. His heart remained pure. This is the purpose of forgiveness. We forgive to keep our hearts pure, free from bitterness and hatred.

Join me this Christmas season in giving a gift to God. Appreciate all those who He has placed in your lives. Spend quality time with your friends and family. Thank God and thank all those in your life who have blessed you. Show kindness and compassion to everyone you meet. Forgive everyone. Reconcile with anyone from whom you may be estranged. Put the bitterness and ill-feelings in the past. When you do, you will truly experience the joy of Christ and have greater cause to celebrate his birth.    

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